Typically, your MOH and bridesmaids are your nearest and dearest who’ve supported you throughout the years. It’s a culmination of your best relationships, which also means it’s a culmination of personalities.
When working with your bridal party, the best thing you can do is set clear and reasonable expectations. Things like projects you want them to help with, events that you want them to attend, and even planning assistance. Being clear and upfront about your expectations will ensure everyone’s on the same page.
Here’s a running list of things you can have your bridal party help with. It is not definitive or all-inclusive, so be sure to add your own! Note–the bolded tasks are typically done by the MOH.
Plan the bridal shower and bachelorette party
Go wedding dress shopping and help pick out bridesmaids dresses
Help tackle DIY projects
Order your dress on time and get the necessary alterations done
Be there for the bride
Run any last-minute errands
Spearhead communication in the bridal party
Keep track of gifts at the shower
Get hair and makeup approved by bride for day of
Serve as legal witness
Be a point of contact
Hold rings and bouquet
Give a toast at the reception
Keep the bridal suite tidy
Help bride put on her dress
Have brides’ phone for social media (or choose someone to be in charge of it)
Assist the mother of the bride and other special guests
Keep the energy high and positive
Smooth out any potential problems and conflicts the day of and leading up
Ensure the bride gets plenty of water and food the day of the wedding
Help ensure family is present and paying attention during family photos (same with bridal party during those photos!)
Round up gifts, cards and decor at the end of the night
Be on the dance floor with the bride
Assist in helping bride use the restroom
Have fun!